The Self-Love Gift Guide You Didn’t Know You Needed

A List of Things You Absolutely Do Not Need, But Should Get Anyways…

Yeah, you read that right…SELF-LOVE GIFT GUIDE. A.K.A. A list of things you really don’t need to purchase, but you should because “hashtag self-love”

Alright, I was shmying the internet (“shmying” is Yiddish for “looking” or “browsing”), because quarantine and I saw some of the cutest things I absolutely do not need to buy, but probably will because life is short. So then I figured I needed to share the wealth with all of you….That, and also I just needed some debt buddies, is that you? Wanna be debt friends? Great. Here we go!


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Celebrate the unique strength and beauty of each sun sign with Ashley Chiang’s luminous quilling.


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The Coy Collection
Rose Hoop

I don’t know why I think these are so cute, but I do.


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Uncommon Goods
Bathtime Essentials Wine Holder

Accented with hand-picked beach stones, it easily suctions to your tub’s wall to give vino its own space.


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Bistro Tile Bonjour Mug

Say bonjour to morning coffees or teas with this bistro-inspired mug that pays homage to the sidewalk cafes of Paris.


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Chuck Taylor Signature Chuck 70

The Chuck 70 mixes the best details from the ’70s-era Chuck with impeccable craftsmanship and premium materials. An elevated style icon, it features more cushioning to keep you looking—and feeling good all day.

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Uncommon Goods
Cleansing Ritual Candle

For thousands of years, people have burned dried sage to bring positive energy to a new home, or during meditation. Rachel Glarner reimagines the ancient ritual with her lovely candle. The heavenly scented soy wax blend features notes of cedar, sage, and lavender. Finished with a layer of dried herbs and lilac crystals, the candle looks as pretty as it smells.



SunnyLife+ via Shopbop
Beach Cooler Sounds

A do-it-all essential for summertime hangouts, this SunnyLife cooler doubles as an on-the-go speaker. Load it up with your favorite seaside snacks and throw on your favorite tunes.


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Free People
Western Hair Rings

Decorate your tresses with these so cool sparkling hair rings featured in western-inspired designs with dangling charm details.


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Impala Roller Skates

Our skates are made from high-quality components, so you can feel good skating the streets or rink with your skate squad. PETA-approved vegan product.


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Urban Oufitters
Minnidip Blushing Palms Inflatable Pool

Topped with a boho print sure will set your yard apart, this mini inflatable pool by MINNIDIP™ takes sunny days to colorful new heights. Double air valves offer quick inflation and deflation, finished with a drain plug at base for water release. Comes with a repair patch.

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Wildflower Cases
Saturdays X/XS

*my own description: If 2020 was a phone case, am I right?*

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Paper Source
Personally Victimized Candle

If “Zen” were a fragrance, this would be it. Experience the earth, bark, and blossom of the Japanese Cherry Tree. Light this up and wind your ass down. This candle is 100% soy wax, fragranced with essential oils. It’s phthalate-free. Oh yeah, and it’s crafted and poured by hand in the USA.

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Urban Outfitters
PopSockets PopGrip Lip Balm Swappable Phone Stand

Pucker up, watch videos and browse social media hands-free thanks to this pop-out phone stand with integrated lip balm from PopSockets, now featuring a swappable cover to change up your look in a pinch. Round design with refillable lip balm inside adheres to back of phone and pops out when you need an extra grip or stand for your device.


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Pink ParaSpa Plus® Paraffin Bath

If you’re avoiding leaving your house like me, WE need this:

The HoMedics® Pink ParaSpa® Plus Paraffin Bath has the ability to turn your skin baby soft all without leaving the comfort of your own home. By following the simple instructions that are included you can hydrate and soothe your skin with hypoallergenic wax and gentle heat. Comes with 3 pounds of  wax (with no added scents or dyes) and 20 liners.


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GeoCentral Reveal Stone Collection: Chakra Collection

These curated collections of crystals, minerals, and stones are a perfect gift for the yogi or crystal healing enthusiast in your life.

Chakra includes clear quartz point, rough amethyst, rough sodalite, tumbled citrine, rough orange calcite, and black tourmaline


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Era Platform – Mini Cord – Multi

The Mini Cord Era Platform combines the original Vans low top skate shoe with sturdy suede and textile uppers, platform sidewalls, padded collars for support and flexibility, and signature rubber waffle outsoles.


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Face Mask 3 Pack – Optimism/Daisies/Pink Super Bloom

Yes, we want to help you take care of yourself, but we also want to help you help others. Right now, you can help take care of those around you by wearing a face mask over your mouth and nose when you go outside. This pack of three reusable non-medical masks has three different colorful designs, secure elastic ear loops, and a sleeve for a filter in each mask. We hope they’ll help bring you joy while you do your part to help flatten the curve.

*Please note these masks are not a replacement for medical grade Personal Protective Equipment, and are not intended to replace other recommended measures to stop the community spread of COVID-19. Please continue to practice social distancing, wash your hands regularly, and refrain from touching your face.

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PrintasticStudio – Etsy
Boho Gallery Wall Set Of 5 Prints

Make your walls pop with this modern boho wall art print set.

Print at home, at your local print shop or online. For best results, print on regular white card stock instead of plain paper.


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Urban Outfitters
UO Elements Meditation Body Spray

Flower Child
– Earth element spray
– To calm your mind and promote peaceful focus
– Infused with fragrance notes: clary sage, eucalyptus, sandalwood


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Ugg – Nordstrom
Fluff Yeah Genuine Shearling Slingback Sandal – Vibrant Coral

Step out in style with this genuine-shearling slingback that combines the warm-weather appeal of a sandal with the plush comfort of your favorite slipper.
*obsessed because they’re equal parts ugly and fluffy*


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Crystal Source Water Bottle

Create a crystal elixir with this glass and bamboo Source Crystal Water Bottle. From our friends at Modern Mystic.
The UpWest Foundation is giving 1% of gross sales to charities that provide comfort for the body, mind and spirit. Our goal is to give up to one million dollars through 1/31/2021.


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Miss Patisserie
HAPPY Shower Steamers

An aromatherapy experience for your shower! Our Shower Steamers transport aromatherapy essential oils through the steam of your shower and help to boost your mood. Made with natural sweet orange oil, the Happy Shower Steamer energizes the mind and uplifts the spirit.

Girl, go treat yourself with all the things you don’t need. I know I am!

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